21 March marks Human Rights day in South Africa. Although South Africans will always remember the Sharpville masacre and what it represents, Human Rights day goes beyond the tragic memory to signify an all-encompassing celebration of the rights for all.

Human rights are rights that everyone should have, simply because they are human. In 1948, the United Nations defined 30 articles of human rights in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. It established universal rights on the basis of humanity, freedom, justice, and peace.

Today, sexual rights are grounded in universal human rights that are already recognised across the board. And for sexual health to be attained and maintained in societies, the sexual rights of all persons must be respected, protected and fulfilled. The World Association of Sexual Health revised the Sexual Rights Declaration in 2014. There are 16 rights in total resulting in a lengthy document, so let’s focus on just few of the rights.

1. The right to equality and non-discrimination

This is the primary right when it comes to sexual rights. Everyone is entitled to enjoy all sexual rights without distinction. It doesn’t matter what your sex, race, religion, sexual orientation or gender identity is. These rights apply to EVERYONE!

2. The right to autonomy and bodily integrity

Everyone has the right to control and decide freely on matters related to their sexuality and their body. This includes the choice of sexual behaviors, practices, partners and relationships.  Free and informed decision making requires free and informed consent prior to any sexually-related testing, interventions, therapies, surgeries, or research.  Informed consent is very important here. There are a lot of sexual and reproductive tests that doctors do, make sure you understand what you are consenting to, it is your right.

3. The right to be free from torture and cruel, inhuman, or degrading treatment or punishment

Everyone has the right to be free from torture and cruel, inhuman, or degrading treatment or punishment related to sexuality, including: harmful traditional practices; forced sterilization, contraception, or abortion; and other forms of torture, cruel, inhuman, or degrading treatment. We often see forced sterilisations in disabled persons or where someone is infected with HIV for instance. That is not ok! Female genital mutulation is also a massive problem in many African countries, and this right serves to protect women from that.

4. The right to be free from all forms of violence and coercion

Everyone shall be free from sexuality related violence and coercion, including: rape, sexual abuse, sexual harassment, bullying, sexual exploitation and slavery, trafficking for purposes of sexual exploitation, virginity testing, and violence committed because of real or perceived sexual practices, sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, and bodily diversity. When we look at homosexual couples in South Africa, we unfortunately sit with a situation where corrective rape is often practised based on the belief that a homosexual person can be ‘cured’ or converted by having sex with someone from the opposite sex. This is obviously not true at all!

5. The right to privacy

Everyone has the right to privacy related to sexuality, sexual life, and choices regarding their own body and consensual sexual relations and practices without interference and intrusion. This includes the right to control the disclosure of sexuality-related personal information to others. As parents we obviously want the best for our children, but our kids have the right to privacy. As difficult as it might be, we need to respect that.

6. The right to education and the right to comprehensive sexuality education

Everyone has the right to education and comprehensive sexuality education.  The ABC approach towards sex education seems very simple and it sits well with communities where abstinence is seen as the best way to protect yourself from all the terrible things associated with sex. But the latest data shows that children are having sex before the age of 16 and by the age of 18 most of them are sexually active. An abstinence only campaign is not going to change that.  We need in stead to supply solid and thorough information and let our kids make their own moral decisions.

7. The right to decide whether to have children, the number and spacing of children, and to have the information and the means to do so

You have the right to to decide whether to have children, the number and spacing of children, and to have the information and the means to do so.

As mentioned, sexual rights embrace certain human rights that are already recognised within national laws, international human rights documents, and other consensus documents. You have the right (free of coercion, violence, and discrimination of any kind) to the highest attainable standard of sexual health and to pursue a satisfying, safe, and pleasurable sexual life.

The full Declaration of Sexual Rights are available here.

This article was originally written for Baby Yum Yum.